Reality about Popularity

 Lots of studies show that most popular kids experience a range of problems in early adulthood.

    While cool teens are often idolized and admired in social media or at there schools. The often start seeking attention by trying to act older than one's age may not bring the expected benefits, according to the studies.

Some researchers follow teens from age 13, when they were in seventh and eighth grades, to age 23, collecting information from the teens themselves as well as from their peers and parents. The teens attended public school.

Teens who are romantically involved at young ages, most likely engaged in criminal activity, and are most likely to hanging out with physically attractive persons. Most of them were thought to be popular by their friends at age 13. By ages of 22, those who were once ''Popular'' teens were seen by their ex classmates as being less competent and more obsess with social media seeking validation. They are also more likely to have significant problems with alcohol and drugs, and to have acted in criminal activities.

Its most probably that the teens you think are so Popular and Flawless in the future they will be spending more time seeking attention and validation from other. Maybe by using drugs, drinking alcohol or acting like free spirits when it comes to relationships.

In conclusion if you seek popularity don't just be yourself and don't seek validation or acceptance from everyone and if you are popular remember that popularity doesn't last for ever.

Reality about Society

Right now we are living in a society where what you wear, how you look and what you have will determine what your worth. A society where people take pictures of homeless people and people that are in need of help to get likes but the worst is that people give there likes to this photographs. We live in a society where we can see people drowning and we are going to take are phones and record the person instead of helping the person.


Most of us know that what we are doing is wrong but we are afraid to go against society. I just want to know why do whe do this, why we permit it. We are living a society where if someone important or a un famous person dies the media will talk about it for weeks and the family is exposed to media to talk how they feel for there lost that is the society where we live.


People dont see that society wants to decide what we wear, with who are friends must be. Society wants to decide are lives for us. Society is deciding what is normal.

1. Society decides what we wear. They tell us what to wear throw magazine, tv and other media.
2. Society wants to decide how we should look like and how are body type should be. And when we get to the point they wants us they see that natural beauty is much better after society said that it wasent good enogh.
3. Society has gotten to the point that people get un need surgerys to be with what society says is beauty. 
4. Society wants to decide what we eat. To the point that we prefer to eat in fast food chains or expensive restaurants and sometimes eat a un healthy meal instead of eating homemade food. 

Society decides what is fashion. And us as people start saying stuff liike ''those clouthes are amazing'' ''I have to have it'''. When in reality you would never wear it if you saw somebody that wasent famous wearing it. But since a famous desiner made it is perfect but if somebody wasent famous made it would be ugly.

In my opinion we shoudent let society decide for us. Its time for us to make a stand for our self.

Accidental Love Book Review

    A friend of mine gave me the suggestion of reviewing the book Accidental Love by Gary Soto. At first I was really excited because it sounded interesting. When i got the book and started reading I realize the book wasn't what I was expecting.

First of all the characters didn't feel real to me. The characters are more likely that they are from before the 2000s since when you read it tells about how Latinos and Blacks would be segregated.

I didn't think the book had a best part but if I had to choose one it would be the part where she meets Priscilla because it showed another side to Marisa's character.

The things I dislike from the book was how it was written. The author was on to something unlike because it's not a usual story. The author gives us a love story of a nerd and a tomboy style girl and you normally don't see this tips falling for each other romantically. From my point of view the story had a opportunity to be something unlike but then it started to be more and more of the same things we typically see and read to keep the story going like: ''My mom doesn't want me to be with you'' or ''I moved from my school to be with you'' that sort of thing. This maybe happen because the author want to emphasize the fact that opposites can attract which it doesn't makes since since he portray the characters in a sort of way but with there actions they portray something completely different.

I rate this book with:

Society Killed Beauty

Makeup advertisements make teenage girls believe that with covering their flaws in makeup they will be beautiful. And this has gotten to the point that girls as young as seven years are using make-up regularly in an attempt to match up to the female perfection shown on television, in teen magazines and by their favorite artist.

The concept of photoshop is taken into account, it is important to note that at least 28% of advertisements are retouched with a disclaimer, and an estimated 44% are retouched without a disclaimer. David Spellman, a clinical psychologist said young teenagers  have developed distorted ideas around appearance through the bombardment of digitalized images in the media. 45% of teenage girls that the photos they see in magazines motivate them to loose weight.

Beauty Pageants have increased the believe that you need to wear large amounts of makeup, have to wear designer clothes, have to have an exact weight, that sometimes we need surgery to get perfection, that we need to have perfect teeth, we have to increased are vanity and puts an age on beauty.  But that an it the worse of all sadly.

In my opinion, society will always have high standards for beauty and from my perspective, the opinions of others will always be relevant when perceiving our own self. I believe if would we stop exhaustively comparing are selves to other women such as the ideals in the media, we will never be satisfied with are own appearance and this results in increased conformity. And this sadly are teenagers are paying the consequences trying to appear something their not and in the worse cases they become anorexic and bulimia.  There is no better you than the true you.


Thank You! Cinty168 for article.

Back to School Tips

      As you may know the second semester stars in a few days at least that's the situation where I live.

Right now most people start there second semester and here are some simple but useful recommendation's:

1. Take your last semester books and journals and read them. That way when school start, your teacher will see that you do care about school, besides you will be a little ahead than your classmates this way.






2.Prepare your backpack. If your like me you will you don't have 0 pencils and other school essential. So the first thing you need to is check if your journals or notebooks have still space to write or if you need new ones. Also get pens and pencils. If your a girl pack a little purse with some make-up if you carry with it and with period pads just in case. Beside those things pack some deodorant, hair brush and a little snack. Don't forget to pack your phone charger and wallet.

3. The last thing I recommend is to pick your clothes before hand and if your school you use uniforms then pick cute accessories for your uniforms.

The Best Way To Save 1K

If you are looking fore a way to save 1K well you are in luck.

Here are some ways to save 1K and a little more:

1. If you want to save 1k in a year this is the saving plan for you:

   All you need is a place to save your money it could be a container, piggy bank anything that can keep your money save. After you have that you just have to put in your container $3 a day. At the end of the year you will have $1,095 in your container.

2. If you want to save 1k in 31 days this is the perfect saving plan for you:

   You will need a place or container to put your money. After you choose the place for your money you will  put in the container $33 every day for 31 days. At the end you will end up with $1,023 in your container.

3. Extreme 1k saving plan:

  In this extreme saving plan its gonna last a week in other words 7 days.  Your gonna take a container and your gonna put $150 everyday for 7 days. At the end you will end up with $1,050 in your container